Tuesday, September 25, 2007

Strengths

Here we go, I finally got 'em. These are my top 5 strengths according to Strengthsquest:

Context-
This one means that I don't overlook the past. I look into it to see meaning and causes for the present. I can pick out the things that have caused the present to be what it is. I can see what was intended. I understand how other people have become who they are.

I see this one totally. I've somewhat recently been so much more interested in history than ever before. I'm just curious about everything and I love learning about people. I want to understand how things work and I often ask "why?"

Empathy-
This says that I know what people are feeling around me. I can feel their feelings as well and even though I may not always agree with them, I can see things from their perspective. I am tactful in my words and can "give voice to [a person's] emotional life."

I like to think this one is reflective of me. I have a lot of friends with some very different opinions and views on life. Though I don't agree, I feel like I can talk to them and be beneficial to them anyway. I feel like I can give my own opinion to friends in words that won't alienate them. I feel like I know what people need and I try to do that for them.

Woo-
This one means I like to "win others over". It also means that I love to meet new people. I see new people as a challenge. I want to know about them and find similarities between us. I'm never shy to start a new conversation. The theme also says that once I've made my connection I like to move on to new people. "In your world there are no strangers, only friends you haven't met yet."

I agree with parts of this one. I'll admit it: I like others to like me. Isn't it only human? I love to find common areas of interest between me and others and talk about it. It's true, I'm not shy to begin conversations and I'm usually up to meeting new people. The part I don't think is true is about moving on to new people. Once I make a connection I usually want to build on that and make a stronger relationship. I love people, and to be honest, the only reason I'd want to move on from someone is if they annoy me, are boring or offend me.

Input-
I collect things. Maybe these things are physical objects or they may be thoughts and facts. The things I collect interest me (no kidding?). Apparently, I find a lot of things interesting because this world is so diverse and complex. "If you like to travel, it is because each new location offers novel artifacts and facts." I'll store these and hopefully use them again someday-because I won't throw them away.

I'd agree with most of this one, too. I love to collect pictures for memories (which ties in with my first strength, context). My mind is one that is easily intrigued. I love languages and travel because they are different and new. I could take the last part literally and say that I've (mostly) gotten over the packrat thing, but at the same time they are all just put on the back burner in my brain.

Learner-
"You love to learn." The process of learning is the most intersting part for me. Those first few steps of learning get me really excited and I long for the process of building on that beginning knowledge. I am able to take on short projects and can learn a lot about a particular matter in a short time, and move on to the next.

I guess this one's true, too. I've found that I do get excited in the very beginning and then I just yearn to become proficient in the matter. The part about short projects is true, also. I can pack a lot of info into my head about a particular subject.


I've thought about it, and I actually think a lot of these qualities about me have emerged to their full....strength, for lack of a better word, in the last year. I think last year was where I grew the most in emotionally and is where I kind of found myself.

12 comments:

Ashley said...

I liked this blog alot. I really felt like I could see you in all of the strengths mentioned, Hil. I could see how context would be a strength of yours because you are very insightful and are able to analyze the past to find meaning. The second one I really felt that I could see you in. Empathy is most definitly one of your strong points. I know you have been there many of times with open ears to listen to me when I needed a listener. The third strength I could definitly see you in as well. You love people! You love relationships and friendships and are a very friendly person and you have been since I first met you however many years ago that was. Input was something I could see you in. You love pictures and little momento's to remember by. The last one I thought was one of the best. You are a learner. You love to read and have always been a good student and have always been involved in many activities. One example of you being a learner would be how fast you were learning Hungarian. When I was visiting you in Hungary, I remember your Hungarian teacher telling us that you were her best student. I think this was pretty accurate on your strengths. I could add a few more in there but I could most certainly see you in all of the areas mentioned! I love you and miss you tons!
Ashley

caseymoot said...

oooh strengths. I'm not going to lie, as a freshmen I didn't see what the big deal about strengths was but by sophomore year, I was a little hooked. it really helps understand other people better. CONTEXT is great because you are really able to look into a situation and extract deeper meaning from it, which I think you do. EMPATHY...YES. Yes, you have it. You know how to relate to just about everyone, no matter their background. And through that, you have learned to understand emotions outside of your own. WOO is tricky because sometimes people look at this strength and think it means "shallowness". No way, and especially in your case. You do win others over just by being you. That comes with having a magnetic personality...and a passion for people. INPUT & LEARNING walk hand-in-hand to me...you love traveling and going places and soaking it all in. You keep things stored up in your head and can pull from a vast knowledge of people and places and experiences whenever.
YAY STRENGTHS!

Nate Dawg said...

Well, walking with you up Mt. Everest the other week showed me a lot about you...ok I lied...I still barely know you. But I can definitely see your Woo strength because you are just a people person. Alright, peace out and keep wooing people!

Fabiola said...

Well Hilary,
I can definitely see your strengths in person. You are empathetic and i'm glad that you can understand different people and their points of view. I'm glad we have things in common (even though the only one we DO have in common is empathy) I feel like I've made a best friend... something that because of past experiences I wasn't really looking for, your ideals and values have made me believe otherwise. Love yah Hilary!!!

starlightwave09 said...

The strength that i instanly recongnized from u is that u are a learner. The reason is because u constantly like to travel and learn new things from other cultures. It doesn't just stop there when u find something that u really like u will dig even farther just for the joy of finding out more!

Lauren Miranda said...

i think it is great that we both have input! all these strenghts i have clearly seen in the short time that i have known you. i also think that learner is very true of you. especially by you going to Hungary and living there and now learning Chinese because of your new little brother. empathy is a great trait to have with learner because with your curiosity and tender heart you can reach out to people in a very ompactful way.

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cjstevick said...

I see the strengths of woo and empathy combined in you. You are willing and joyful in meeting new people, but you also seem to be able to connect with them on a deeper level after meeting them because you can tell how they're feeling and what they're going through at all times.

[NOK] said...

dang.. learner...
i would never ever be one..
BIG RESPECT FOR TAT!

Samantha said...

i definatly agree that you're top streght is context. when you talk you talk using ur past in what you say.. ok that didnt make since.. but in makes sence in my head...

Jay-I said...

creamy what can i say...you definitely have woo because i know in my case when we met we immediately clicked.

Jay-I said...

creamy what can i say...you definitely have woo because i know in my case when we met we immediately clicked.